Friday, August 23, 2013

Bowling Shoes Optional

First, I'll say that we are back in Oman!  We had a very smooth trip here and were so blessed by two awesome traveling kiddos.  We were worried about Emalyn since she is now 4 1/2 months and much more aware and awake, but she did great.  Aberly was stellar as usual.  Even the stewardesses were gushing about our wonderful travelers.  The harder part has actually been the jetlag.  The first few nights were rough, especially for Emalyn.   We had some screaming nights, and nights that were like days.  Naps with a few hours between.   BUT we are on the upswing and almost back to normal.

So bowling. 

Looking for a fun thing to do with our friends, Jeff and Amanda, Amanda suggested bowling since I had mentioned how much Aberly liked it.  And since it's currently 90 degrees with 75% humidity, we didn't want to be outside. 
As soon as we arrived, I knew we were the most serious bowlers there.  And my average is around 110, so that should be an indicator.

My first clue was just hearing what was going on.  You know when you go to a bowling alley and you hear that awful thud when someone accidentally drops a ball on the lane too hard?   Well, that was pretty much what was happening on every lane, each time.  I literally watched a kid heft his ball over his head and throw it down.  Multiple times.  I may not be a pro, but I respect the alley and it made me cringe.  Cringe so much that said something to the desk attendant.  He wasn't fazed and nonchalantly said it wasn't his job to do anything.  His job was the desk.  It wasn't until I said I would go say something that he made the floor attendant go talk to them.

Everyone's form was terrible; people got up for their turn and didn't take a second to prepare any type of stance.  I don't think they even used the same ball each time (by the way, those balls had so many dings and nicks I can't believe they actually rolled smoothly).  

After getting our lane and paying, we were asked if we WANTED bowling shoes.  We didn't have to get them.  Really?  Apparently it's optional.  But being a serious bowler, of course I wanted them.  And I didn't cringe too much because since they are optional, they were barely used and in pretty nice shape.  We were the oddities.  Most people around us were in their normal shoes, sandals, and yes, there was a lady in sparkly heels.  No joke.  They flashed from under her abaya when she turned after a very awkward bowl.  I guess when you have no approach, it doesn't matter what your shoes do.

Bowling etiquette was not followed.  People edged into our lane.  There was no courtesy waiting when the person next to you bowled.  People walked part way on to the lane.  It was a free for all.

I kept thinking that the poor people at Brunswick would be dying a little inside if they saw how their products were being used and treated.  I mean, I was dying a little inside! 
I realized near the end of our time that we were being watched.  I mean, since we were the most serious bowlers there, our over 100 scores probably stood out.  And the fact that Colin and I have an approach and small leg swing when we release the ball probably made us look like semi-pros. 
And although Aberly was using a ramp, she was poised behind it and pushed smoothly and seriously.  Actually, they were probably laughing at us being so serious. 

One thing that did make me feel some comfort was that no matter what alley you are in, where ever it is in the world, it will look just like home.









Thursday, August 15, 2013

Summer wind down

Well, here we are, just three days left and we will be back on the plane to Oman.  This summer has flown by but has been wonderful in so many ways.  We have been so absolutely blessed to have time with our family and friends, as well as take Aberly on new adventures.  She is such a joy and it truly filled our hearts to see her loving life and Oregon.  Her energy is exhausting, but we love watching her grow and mature.  Emalyn has also changed so much in these past few months and she kept all of us smiling each day, even if we were sleep deprived from her wake-filled nights for awhile. 

Since my last post, we finished out our final week in Bend and then came here to Corvallis to stay  with my family.  Here are a few highlights:

-  Beach trip!  We headed to stay at a beach house in Lincoln City for a week.  A trip to the Aquarium was the highlight for Aberly.
  
 

-  Fair day at the Benton County Fair.  Hot and crowded, but always an joy for kids, especially once they look at you with pleading eyes to ride rides, which means paying for an all-you-can-ride bracelet at the low price of $30.  Ouch.  We made sure Aberly got her money's worth!
 

-  Enchanted Forest.  Oh, the memories of going there as a child.  Aberly loved it just as much as I did as a kid.  They have added a "kiddie ride" section which, of course, meant another ride bracelet just like the fair, and one for daddy to ride the bigger ones with her (Aberly's favorite was the bobsleds).  Another pocket-draining adventure, but well worth it!  And hey, I loved being there again!  Such a magical place.
 


-  Playing at local parks and the downtown fountains!  They were cold, but Aberly jumped right in.  We also had a fun afternoon at the local Aquatics Center.  The slide was her favorite!

-  Helping Papa with chores around the house, as well as helping Nana with baking.   Aberly LOVES to be a helper.



-  Playing and hanging out with Papa, Nana, and Uncle Andrew (both Aberly and Emalyn).  Mommy and Daddy got wonderful breaks to do errands and such, and even had a few dates!
  
 
 
-  Zoo!  And not only were we at the zoo, but it was a zoo as we made our way through the park with our great friends, Jon and Kristina, and their four kids.   It was crazy.  But the kids did great and the parents did not lose any sanity (not that I know of).  And we loved getting a chance to catch up with them after two years.  Aberly and their daughter, Alice, were born on the same day and they were a hoot to watch (I included a picture of them as newborns at the hospital for comparison sake).  Friends one minute, competing for something the next.  They both are strong willed and full of energy.  After the zoo, we were so lucky to have dinner with Uncle Kevin and Uncle Connor in Beaverton. 
  



-  A visit from my cousins and their kids, as well as my good friend Andrea and her two girls. 
 

And so much more!  Here are a last few sweet pics of the girls to make you smile.