Wednesday, October 22, 2014

"Dress Normal"

A couple weeks ago, I was driving along a major road here in Muscat and noticed a new billboard that has been eating at me for some time now.

First, I'll say that billboards are a very new addition to Muscat.  When we moved here just three years ago, there were almost none, except the occasional promotional billboard during elections or local events.  Since those first few years, we have seen them slowly come in around town.  Major stores and malls continue to come in to Oman, adding more and more consumerism (sadly) and Western influence into the culture here. 

While the billboards, in general, don't bother me too much.  This one did.

I looked up this advertisement online and found out it's a part of a new multiple ad series campaign GAP has.  While it is possibly fitting in the US, here, in my opinion, it's offensive and sending a strong message. (I would find it offensive in any country where very traditional dress still exists).

This is the image on the billboard with the logo and wording.

For the middle east, the non-Muslim/Arab woman (actress Elisabeth Moss) is dressed appropriately.  I see many women here, mostly expats, wearing things like this.  Well, probably not such a heavy jacket, but the skinny pants, flats, and blouse are appropriate.

But what I find offensive is the campaign logo of "Dress Normal". 

The underlying message of this campaign in the middle east is "all of you in abayas and dishdasas (the Omani male traditional outfit) are not dressing normally".  Maybe it doesn't come across that way on the surface when you first look at it, or if one doesn't think much of it, but I can't help think that subconciously, the Arab youth are picking up this message that their country's traditional way of dressing is not "normal" or appropriate.  And we know how easily influenced and swayed youth in any country can be.

The wording also touches into the already sensitive issue to non-Muslims that women wearing the abaya is wrong, despite it's deeply rooted connections in Islam and the belief to have women covering their bodies to protect men from being overcome by sexual desires.  I wonder what a woman in an abaya driving down the same street as me is thinking when she sees this billboard telling her to "dress normal" and that clearly is not in an abaya.

It's sad enough to see the Western world already coming into such lovely, traditional countries around the world like Oman and influencing them so much already in their diets, dress, and way of lives, but to see messages being sent to counter their cultures, their beliefs, and their deeply rooted mores is ultimately disturbing.


And honestly, this ad campaign bugs me for the US culture as well because ultimately, the message is, if you aren't wearing GAP, you aren't normal.  This article does a good job summing it up:
http://www.adweek.com/adfreak/gaps-new-celebrity-ads-tell-us-dress-normal-what-does-mean-exactly-159703

What do you think? 

Friday, October 17, 2014

Eid (Fall) Break

A late one, but Eid Mubarak! 

Last week we were on Fall Break for one week due to the Eid holiday celebration.  Despite the hot weather (upper 90's) we were determined to get out and not be stuck at home going stir crazy with two active and energetic little girls.

While many of our TAISM coworkers set off for exotic locations like France, Bali, Spain, and the likes, we did three overnight stay-cations here in Muscat. 

The first was a trip to the Shangri-la Resort about a half hour from our home.  It's a 5 star resort that features a beach, splash pad, numerous pools, a lazy river, an indoor park (think McDonald's playplace x 10), yummy restaurants, and service from resort members everywhere you turn. 

We spent our two days pretty much in water, whether it was in the pool, in the ocean, or on the splash pad.  The girls had a lot of fun!

Checking out the view from our room after check in (with complimentary ice cream for the kids)

Pool time!  Run, run, run!

Emalyn insisted on trying on the pool gear.  It promptly came off after the photo.

After our lovely buffet dinner.  Stuffed to the gills with fabulous food.  Honestly, too much to choose from.  They have stations for almost every major nationality represented (Asian, Indian, European, Arabic, etc...)

Splash pad happiness

Mommy having fun too!

Aberly tackling the rock climbing wall in Adventure Zone

One of the fascinating things about staying at the Shangri-la is that it's a resort, so it attracts people from all over, not just locals.  So you'll see every variety of clothing and swim wear around the park.  The Burkini to the bikini, it's all there!  I always wonder what the conservative Muslims think about all of us running around practically naked.  Do the women worry about their husbands' wandering eyes?  Are they afraid for what their children will see? 

Our next adventure was camping.  We knew it was a risk.  Emalyn is just 18 months.  How would this go?  Namely, how would sleep go?  Well, it was bad.  Yes, bad.  Colin and I could not have gotten more than 6 hours of sleep between us.  About 2-3 hours each.  We're not sure if it was the heat, the waves crashing, or what, but Em tossed and turned and fussed all night long.  Luckily Aberly slept through the mayhem.  

But besides that, we had lots of fun during the day with our good friends, the Walters, and two other families they knew.

Locked and loaded.  Ready for the two hour drive.

Panorama of our camp site.

Digging in the small patch of sand.  It was pretty much a skipping-stone rock beach.

Off to explore the tide pools.

The beginning of a long night.

Our last adventure was going out to another local resort that's not quite as fancy as the Shangi-la, but fun all the same.  The Millennium Resort is about an hour north with a private bay, kayaking, paddle boarding, a pool, spa, lovely restaurant, and kid's outdoor activities.  Due to the heat, we didn't do too much, but we enjoyed the pool and beach, as well as relaxing in our room.

Nancy (Colin's mom) was visiting that weekend from India, so she joined us for our Millennium trip and the girls were very happy to see their GeeGee and play with her.  I took advantage of the extra set of hands and enjoyed a Thai massage at the spa (heaven!) and Colin and I had dinner sans children while they had room service with GeeGee before bed.  A fun twist on our afternoon was a sandstorm blowing through, but due to the wind coming from the opposite side of the hotel, to us, it looked like a thick fog had rolled in and reminded us a lot of the Oregon coast. 

Sadly, I have no photos of the weekend as we forgot our camera in the room every time we headed down to the pool.  Just imagine lots more smiles playing in the pool, digging on the beach, and fun family time with Nancy.

Our vacation week ended with a bang, so to speak, as we (except Nancy and Emalyn) were hit with a tummy bug that was AWFUL.  After puking out all the contents of our stomachs and numerous trips to the toilet, our systems were empty and ravaged.  We were exhausted and spent.  Thank goodness Nancy was there to help around the house, make soup, and keep an eye on things.  We felt terrible that the 2nd half of her vacation was watching us be miserable, but we were thankful she was there.  

After an extra day off from work, we all recovered and jumped back into the swing of work.  

It was definitely a memorable holiday break!


Sunday, October 5, 2014

Fall nostalgia

While Fall has started back home, we are still sitting here in the mid to upper 90's weather during the day and full sun on our back.  I was joking yesterday with a co-worker that Fall here in Oman simply means humidity is less than 50"%, there are bluer skies, and slightly "cooler" evenings (ie.  upper 80's). 

But the idea of Fall is still around, with many of us expats putting Fall scented candles in our homes and other decor items we might have.  ​


​I have accented our house with some orange candles, fall colored fake flowers, and a twig garland. 

Exhibit A
 

We find Fall where we can and enjoy it the best we can.
A place I found fall last week was during my weekly shopping trip. 
Due to the larger and larger expat population here in Muscat, the stores have increased the various items us Westerners like to have.  Canned yams, sweet potatoes, and pumpkin are usually on the shelves most of the year.  Luckily squash is very common here for cooking, so we can find various types to enjoy. 
Actual jack-o-lantern pumpkins do come in right around Halloween, but it's ridiculous how much money they cost.  We have not purchased said pumpkins.



The girls got dressed up the other day together.  Aberly has been talking about Halloween since September 1st.  She cannot wait.  Em was pretty jazzed about the experience.


Anyways, my surprise last week at the store was bags of shelled nuts.  They had individual bags of shelled almonds and hazelnuts (noted from Oregon, nice!), but they also had bags of mixed nuts (Brazil, Walnuts, Pecan, Almond and Hazelnuts).  Memories of my childhood came swarming in as I stood at the display.  My mom would always buy mixed shelled nuts in the fall and put them in a wood bowl in the living room.  We would work hard as kids to crack the nuts and pick out their innards with the special picks.
Nostalgia got the best of me and I spent about $12 on two bags of mixed nuts and a nut cracker from the utensil aisle.
But it was worth it.  I got the nuts out at home and the girls had so much fun.  Izzy, our neighbor, was over, and she and Aberly loved guessing what kind of nuts they were and put in a lot of effort to get them out of the shells after Colin's demonstration.  Emalyn tried to eat them in the shell but quickly realized that wasn't going to work.  She resorted to moving them from bowl to bowl.


Demonstration and anticipation

Fascination

Here, let me help.

Master cracker.  Izzy sent nuts flying.

Ok, here I go.

Squuuuuueeeeeezzzzzeeeeee!

With some help from mom, we found twin Almonds!

$12 well spent.